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Thursday, June 30, 2011

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #9

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Girls SHOULD...
DATE SOMEONE OLDER
Dating in your age group can be common ground but, dating someone older can open a world of possibilities to you that you may not have seen before.
The level of growth and sophistication of your partner can challenge you to changes and growth of your own! Of course there is the possibility that they won't seem that much older than you anyway because men often still have that boyish spirit inside them but, it's worth the experience to learn a few things about life and about yourself.

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #8

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Girls SHOULD...
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF
It is important to know your own value and not allow other people to take advantage of you or use or abuse you in any way for their own agendas or gain.
Don't accept being belittled or disrespected.
Stand UP for yourself and be heard!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #7

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Girls SHOULD...
FALL IN LOVE.
More than once. You will then recognize that it WILL happen more than once in your life!
Everyone hopes for the ONE and if you find them you are very lucky.
However, it is good to understand and be open to the POSSIBILITIES in life.
Fall in love. Enjoy it! If it isn't right...move on!
There are many paths and ways of love.

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #6

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Girls SHOULD...
TAKE A RISK.
Say hello to that boy you always see and smile at but, are afraid to talk to.
Apply for that job you think you can't get...you might be surprised!
Start something new that you've been afraid to do before.
Challenge yourself!
If you are not willing to take the risk, you will never receive the reward!

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #5

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Girls SHOULD...
DO SOMETHING DRASTIC WITH YOUR HAIR.
Get a hair cut if you haven't had one in a long time. Change the style of your cut.
Colour your hair. Colour your hair a funky, fun colour!
Liberate yourself from the same old boring every day you.
It will remind you that you have choices!!

Saturday, June 25, 2011

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #4

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Girls SHOULD...
LEARN TO DRIVE.
Especially if you are a quiet, shy, reserved person. Learning to drive is a HUGE confidence booster.
It CAN be scary and therefore doing it can show you that you ARE quite capable of doing BIG, SCARY things all by yourself! The independence and freedom of having a car and the ability to go where you want is HUGE! Not to mention it makes it possible to take a road trip with the girls! ;)

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #3

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Girls SHOULD...
TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF.
None of us can function properly and happily if we are run down and exhausted. It is important to take time for yourself to replenish your spirit and recharge.
For some of us this can be a few minutes each day to do something for yourself in quiet and solitude.
For others a bigger chunk of time may be necessary.
Some of us can even plan to take a whole day once a week or once a month.
It doesn't matter when or how you do it, just that you DO.

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #2

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Girls SHOULD...
LEARN TO SAY NO.
Many of us will want to be helpful and accommodating to our friends so much that we will not say no when we should and will accept too much to be able to function and contribute at our best.
You should never feel guilty for saying NO and taking the time you need to keep yourself strong, healthy and balanced.

50 Day Things Girls SHOULD Do Challenge: Post #1

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Girls should...
LIVE ALONE.
Every girl should leave home and live in an apartment by herself for at least a year.
In this way she will taste freedom and independence and enjoy doing whatever she wants to do without fear of upsetting a status quo of people she is living with.
She will then KNOW when she does live with another person which things are negotiable and which things she really needs to feel whole and well-balanced as an individual.
She will know and understand the necessity of her own silence sometimes.
She will understand and have compassion for other people's loneliness because she will have felt it at times herself.
She will learn that she can BE self sufficient and doesn't NEED another person to be with her daily in order to survive, or even enjoy her life.
She will appreciate time with friends in comparison to time alone with herself and will also appreciate time alone with herself in comparison to time with her friends.
She will KNOW that she is capable of many more things than she would if she never lived alone and had to take care of herself by herself!